What’s your definition of romantic?

Romance is indeed subjective, and a romantic evening can take various forms depending on personal preferences. For some, it might involve a delightful picnic in a serene park, complete with a selection of fine cheeses and a bottle of wine, while for others, it could mean karaoke in a dive bar! The concept of romance has certainly evolved over time, with each generation interpreting it in their own unique way. In today’s society, there are diverse perspectives on romance and relationships, reflecting the increasing openness to different expressions of love and affection.

This evolution of romance also intersects with changing attitudes towards gender roles. Traditional ideas about gender roles have been challenged and redefined, leading to a more inclusive and diverse understanding of how individuals can express themselves within relationships. The fluidity of gender roles and the broadening of societal norms have played a significant role in reshaping the landscape of romance and the ways in which it is perceived and experienced.

Exploring with depth the innate beliefs and/or perceptions of what we define as romantic, it will be determined that our beliefs are not actually innate but instead are learned mindsets; that is, those beliefs are primarily based on environmental and external influences.

Romance is not meant to be scientific. It is meant to be a mutual act of affection.  Upon getting to know our partners, it is a way to keep them closer, a reminder of what it was that drew them to us in the earlier stages of the relationship.

Let’s stop cheapening the idea of something that was meant to be so simple. Stop looking at others to show you when the answers have already revealed itself to you!

Or, you could be the cynic of the group and shout when asked what ‘romantic’ means to you: ROMANCE, SCHNOMANCE!